Help Coping
When people are facing a cancer diagnosis and undergoing treatment it can be a long and difficult journey. The focus is usually on fixing and healing the body but a stressful time like this can be hard on mental health and put a real strain on people’s relationships.
There is no denying that this is a really hard and difficult time for everyone. Patients, their families and their friends can all struggle to cope with their feelings and emotions and it is hard.
For patients it is about coping with the physical side effects of cancer and treatment and all the anxiety that comes along with that. Watching someone go through treatment can also be very difficult and frustrating, feelings of anxiety, uncertainty and frustration at being unable to help can take their toll.
Some people find it useful to contact mental health professionals to talk and get advice on how to cope.
Maggie's provide free cancer support and information in their centres alongside NHS hospitals and online.
Find your nearest centre here Our centres | Maggie's (maggies.org)
They're open Monday to Friday, 9am to 5pm. You don't need an appointment, just pop in.
Macmillan have advisers who are able to give conselling help and advice. You can contact Macmillan on 0808 808 0000 – this is a free number except when calling from mobiles. If you are hard of hearing 0808 808 0121 is the number for the Text Relay service.
They can offer support via the phone, email or on-line chat. The are 3 categories of support;
Free Specialist Counselling - through Bupa, Macmillan are offering up to 4 free remotely-delivered counselling sessions for people struggling emotionally because they are living with cancer. People can access support remotely within days if they qualify to use the service.
Macmillan buddies - If you need to talk, you can access a weekly call or visit from one of their trained Macmillan Buddies.
Macmillan Online Community is a free online place for people living with or who are affected by cancer to chat about the issues affecting them.
Samaritans provides confidential, round the clock support to anyone feeling low or struggling to cope.
People contact them about all kinds of things including health worries, financial concerns, anxiety, relationship breakdown, depression and thoughts of suicide. You can contact Samaritans 24 hours a day, 365 days a year by calling 08457 90 90 90 or from the Republic of Ireland call 1850 60 90 90.
You can also email for support via jo@samaritans.org. Volunteers also provide face-to-face support at our branches during set opening times. Please visit the website to find your nearest Samaritans branch here.
Scotland based charity for mental health issues. Call 0800 83 85 87 Monday to Thursday 6pm to 2am and Friday to Sunday 6pm to 6am.
Heads2gether hold online Zoom-based meetings every month on the third Wednesday at 6:30pm. They also hold monthly meetings at the Maggie’s centre next to the Churchill Hospital in Oxford, Maggie’s centre next to the University Hospital in Southampton and the Community Room at Tesco Extra in Swindon. Look at their website for more face-to-face meetings at new venues.
To see more about the way Head2gether has helped other head and neck cancer patients and cares see: https://youtu.be/c-VLpnREzVk
To sign up for the meetings, visit: https://www.heads2gether.net/virtual-meeting-registration/
Heads2gether Helpline: 0800 0234 550
Calm with Kerry
Kerry Hector is a Breathwork Coach, Yoga Teacher and Sound Therapist who has a huge love of all things health and wellness - Kerry predominantly works with private clients, including couples and families who seek to manage and improve their own wellbeing.
As Kerry says "I created Calm with Kerry having gone through my own personal experience with stress and the effects it had on my physical and emotional wellbeing - it’s incredibly important to me to bring awareness to tangible and accessible techniques that can be easily adopted into our daily routines, providing stress relief, a reduction in anxiety, better sleep and an overall improvement in physical and mental wellbeing."
For more information about how Kerry may be able to help you please contact her by phone or email:
07540 571546
Resources and information about mental health and coping with anxiety and stress. See: https://www.mind.org.uk/
Mind's 4 helplines provide a voice at the end of the phone when there's nowhere else to turn. Each line meets a different mental health or wellbeing need – from information and service finding to understanding mental health law.
Support line: 0300 102 1234
We're open 9am to 6pm, Monday to Friday (except bank holidays).
Our support line is a safe space for you to talk about your mental health. Our advisors are trained to listen to you and help you find specialist support if you need it.
Talk to us if:
- You want a safe and confidential place to talk openly about your feelings
- You want someone to listen to you and help you to find the right steps to take for your mental health
- You're looking for emotional support for your mental health and wellbeing
We are not a crisis service. Our page on how to get help in a crisis explains where to get help in an emergency.
Infoline: 0300 123 3393
We're open 9am to 6pm, Monday to Friday (except for bank holidays).
Ask us about:
- Mental health problems
- Where to get help near you
- Treatment options
- Advocacy services
You can also contact us via:
- Email: info@mind.org.uk
- Post: Mind Infoline, PO Box 75225, London, E15 9FS
Welfare benefits line: 0300 222 5782
We're open 9am to 5pm, Monday to Friday (except bank holidays).
Our welfare benefits line supports anyone with mental health problems who is navigating the benefits and welfare system.
Ask us about:
- The benefits you may be entitled to
- Cost of living support
- Personal Independent Payment, Universal credit and other types of benefit
- Benefit appeals
Legal line: 0300 466 6463
We're open 9am to 6pm, Monday to Friday (except for bank holidays).
Our Legal line offers legal information and general advice on mental health related law in England and Wales.
Ask us about:
- Being detained under the Mental Health Act (sectioning)
- Mental capacity
- Community care
- Discrimination and equality
You can also contact us via:
- Email: legal@mind.org.uk
- Post: Mind Legal line, PO Box 75225, London, E15 9FS
A web resource that provides information and support to people affected by asbestos exposure and various types of cancer including laryngeal cancer. Although this is an American charity they are keen to educate and aid UK patients with Mesothelioma.
The United Kingdom has one of the highest rates of mesothelioma in the world. The U.K. used brown asbestos and our government permitted the use of chrysotile asbestos years after other countries outlawed it.
Asbestos use in the U.K. began in the late 1800s to insulate ships, steam engines and power plants. By the 1970s, Britain used it in construction throughout the country. U.K. researchers were publishing studies on the dangers of asbestos as early as the 1930s. But it wasn’t until 1999 that the U.K. banned all types of asbestos.
Please take a look at the pages below for more information:
Asbestosis Symptoms: https://www.asbestos.com/asbestosis/symptoms/
Mesothelioma in the UK: https://www.asbestos.com/mesothelioma/uk/
The Willow Foundation helps seriously ill young adults to make precious memories
For more than 25 years, Willow has created Special Days, bespoke experiences and Special Treats for seriously ill young adults and their loved ones.
Taking over from where the Make-A-Wish age limit ends, we provide fun-packed family days out, quiet weekends away from it all, to a chance to meet heroes or fulfill a lifelong wish or dream. Each experience is unique and creates precious memories that last a lifetime.
If there is anything that we can do to help, or information that you feel should be mentioned here then contact us here.
Oracle Head & Neck Cancer UK is a registered charity in England and Wales (1142037), and in Scotland (SC052790).
Registered as a company limited by guarantee in England and Wales (7125497). Registered address: 167-169, Great Portland Street, 5th Floor, London W1W 5PF.